How to Stage a Family Intervention
A family intervention is a planned, caring conversation where a few people close to the person ask them to accept treatment. Plan it in advance, keep it calm and short, and have an admission option ready — our team on 0706 466 150 can help you prepare.
Last updated: 3 November 2026
Who should take part?
Choose two to five people the person respects and trusts, such as a parent, spouse, sibling, close friend or religious leader. Leave out anyone likely to lose their temper or who is using substances themselves.
How do I plan an intervention?
- Agree on the goal: that the person accepts an assessment or admission
- Call our admissions team so a treatment option is ready
- Each person writes a short, caring note about specific incidents
- Agree what each person will do if the person refuses
- Pick a private place and a time when the person is likely to be sober
What happens on the day?
Keep it calm and respectful. Each person reads their note, then you make the request clearly. If they agree, move quickly — arrange the assessment or admission the same day if possible.
What if the intervention does not work?
Stay loving but firm. Follow through on the boundaries you agreed, keep offering help, and seek support for yourselves as a family.
What are the next steps?
Frequently Asked Questions
Is an intervention the same as an ambush?
No. A good intervention is respectful and caring. The aim is to show love and concern, not to shame or trap the person.
How do I admit someone to Holding Hands?
Call 0706 466 150 or send a WhatsApp message. Our team does a free, confidential assessment, agrees a treatment plan and admission date with you, and explains what to bring. Our admissions team is available 24 hours a day.
How much does treatment cost?
Fees depend on the programme and length of stay. Call 0706 466 150 for a personalised quote after a free assessment. See our rehab fees page for what affects the cost.